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The BLAME Game

When something goes wrong in your life, who do you blame?



“I’m in so much debt because the economy is bad and everything is so expensive. It’s not my fault”



“My mother always criticized…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on November 16, 2016 at 9:23am — No Comments

A NIGHT AT THE RACES

When I was younger I must have fallen asleep for twenty years like Rip Van Winkle. Then when I awoke, somewhere in adulthood, I noticed a most unusual evolving phenomenon: in a world where only two distinct races existed (black and white) there were now Hispanics, Asians, Latinos, and others.  Over the next several decades, more and more groups of people were being classified as such. A recent internet…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on November 9, 2016 at 7:44am — No Comments

L~A~V~S~S METHOD: 5 KEYS TO RESOVLE CONFLICT

Keeping our disagreements from becoming full-blown fights can be challenging. Many times, we're so passionate about our beliefs or what we want to do that any form of opposition causes us to become frustrated and angry. We may prefer that others simply agree with our position or if they don't to remain silent. We may be willing to hear their point of view at times but are not necessarily anxious to…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on November 2, 2016 at 7:40am — No Comments

WHEN ANGER MANAGEMENT DOESN'T WORK

I've been teaching anger management and conflict resolution for nearly a quarter of a century. What makes me so successful in my work is that I do not lecture on any subject matter that I haven't personally experienced and mastered. In that regard, people find me authentic and know that if I've succeeded at healing my anger and being at peace with my surroundings, they can achieve the same or more. For…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on October 26, 2016 at 7:37am — No Comments

Anger: The Bigger Picture

Have you ever found yourself in a situation that was somewhat confusing, uncomfortable or perhaps even dangerous? Sometimes it's hard to understand why things happen or why we must participate in particular activities. We don't often understand why certain people enter our lives or why they leave. "Living in the moment" is a wonderful philosophy but can obstruct our ability to more fully see the bigger…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on October 12, 2016 at 7:54am — No Comments

ANGER AND POWER: THE CONNECTION

We all seek to be powerful. I'm not speaking necessarily about having authority over others but we certainly want to have control over our own lives. Yet even the most well-intentioned, enlightened person wants to control a particular situation or individual at times. Certainly, parents impose their authority over their children which is not necessarily a bad thing. Children, especially those who are…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on October 5, 2016 at 7:35am — No Comments

RIOTING IN N. CAROLINA

Recently a 43 year old man and father of seven, Keith Lamont Scott, was killed by police in Charlotte, NC. As is often the case, there are conflicting reports as to what actually happened. Currently, an investigation by a separate state agency is taking place to determine if this shooting was warranted or was an act of racial profiling. In any event, investigations of this nature can take months to…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on September 28, 2016 at 7:54am — No Comments

DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE USING C~U~R~B~APPEAL

We all have challenging people in our lives yet unfortunately few of us have been properly trained in how to effectively deal with them. Well, that's going to change today. In no particular order, using the an acronym "C~U~R~B  Appeal", you will learn tips that will better enable you to get along with difficult people.…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on September 21, 2016 at 7:57am — No Comments

NEVER ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU!

We're all influenced by those around us and by what is occurring in our lives. Something as simple as the  weather can affect how we feel. A cloudy, rainy day can take an otherwise cheerful person and transform them into a gloomy Gus of sorts. Being stuck in traffic can alter one's mood from that of excitement for what begins as a day filled with great anticipation to one of frustration and agitation.…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on September 14, 2016 at 7:38am — No Comments

I think the majority of people would agree that it's unhealthy to live in the past. After all, we're all familiar with the new age philosophy, "Yesterday is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, Today is a Gi…

I think the majority of people would agree that it's unhealthy to live in the past. After all, we're all familiar with the new age philosophy, "Yesterday is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, Today is a Gift, That's why it's called the Present".  Living in the past holds us back from being able to embrace the present moment. People hold on to childhood fears, adolescent pain, betrayals, bitterness, anger,…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on August 31, 2016 at 7:42am — No Comments

The Anger Exchange: Give Up These 7 to Gain This Instead

If you've read my book, The Secret Side o f Anger, or attended one of my lectures on the topic, you know that while there are thousands of events that can trigger anger, there are actually only three root causes: hurt, fear, and frustration. In any given circumstance, you can trace anger back to one or more of these causes. For the purpose of today's show, I've going to cover seven erroneous belief…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on August 24, 2016 at 8:03am — No Comments

7 TIBETAN STEPS TO LASTING JOY

There is something about the country of Tibet that has always intrigued me. Perhaps it's the beautiful landscape along crystal blue waters or the unique architecture of its oriental style buildings. Or more importantly a group of monks that call this country their home are known for their serene way of life. They seem unaffected by the modern day stresses and anger that the rest of us are subjected to…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on August 17, 2016 at 7:30am — No Comments

Anger and the 2 "F" Words

No, I'm not speaking about that "F" word. I'm going to address two different words beginning with the letter "f" and how they influence the decisions we make, our responses in any given situation, and how the outcome adds to or subtracts from our happiness and/or contributes to our anger. Those two words are "feelings" and "facts".  Let me explain.…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on August 10, 2016 at 8:35am — No Comments

You Can't Ruin My Day

Have you ever gotten out of bed in the morning declaring that today was going to be a great day? And before your first cup of coffee, something happened that completely ruined everything? Perhaps your child woke up sick or the car wouldn't start or your boss calls you to let you  know that you'll be staying late tonight to finish a very important project. The day is less than an hour old and already…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on August 3, 2016 at 9:07am — No Comments

Anger: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

As a child I was taught that anger was a bad emotion but I've have since come to understand that there are no bad feelings. All emotions have purpose and value as they teach us about ourselves based on how we react to external events. We assign value to each depending on how people act them out. If someone feels angry and reacts by screaming or hitting someone, it is pretty well agreed upon that that's…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on July 27, 2016 at 7:42am — No Comments

10 Tips to Diffuse a Volatile Situation

We are living in a very volatile and dangerous age. Not only have issues of domestic violence, child and animal abuse, anger in the workplace and so on been more apparent, but we are definitely witnessing a rise of violence within our communities. Gangs and individual assaults seem to be taking a back seat to protests by militant groups claiming to seek justice but who in actuality are promoting and…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on July 20, 2016 at 7:37am — No Comments

Claim Your Abundance

Shortly after my Mom transitioned, she began to connect with me often telepathically.  I had many questions about her experience in Spirit, and one of them was about how she saw me now. 

Mom replied:  “Abundance is all around you…like brilliant golden light…but you must call it in.  You must claim it!” 

“Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.” – Wayne Dyer

So how exactly do you tune in , and “claim”…

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Added by Kumari on July 14, 2016 at 9:02am — No Comments

THIS HIDDEN SECRET WILL TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP

With the exception of impersonators, most people believe that they only have one voice. That voice is used to express one's feelings and needs. It  can be vocalized either loudly or softly; it's tone can change from one of sarcasm to that of compassion; one's voice can be used to express happiness, anger, sadness, silliness, compliments or criticisms. We have our "baby" voice, (typically reserved for…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on July 13, 2016 at 7:45am — No Comments

What To Do About Annoying People?

I'd venture to say that everyone of us has had to deal with annoying people at some point in our lives. Whether it's a family member who is in everyone's business, a coworker who continually needs your assistance, the know-it-alls who always have to be right or a friend who talks incessantly, short of removing them permanently from your life or blowing up at them in an attempt to make them see the…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on July 6, 2016 at 8:29am — No Comments

Preventing Another Orlando Massacre

Last week our country was shattered by yet another senseless massacre of innocent people. A gunman opened fire inside Pulse, a crowded gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, early Sunday morning, leaving at least 49 people dead in the worst mass shooting in modern U.S. history. Gays have long been targets of hate crimes throughout the world as have others as well. Heated debates in Congress and among US…

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Added by Janet Pfeiffer on June 22, 2016 at 8:42am — No Comments

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